OUR IMPERFECT RELATIONSHIP

A blog about our sex life (which for five years was non-existent)

The blog is currently under maintenance!

About me and this blog

My name is Titti Pauler Reenstierna, I was born 1983 and one part of me can’t believe I’m actually sharing this publically. Another part finds it very important though. When my partner and I became parents we stopped having sex. Being a parent is exhausting yet I don’t think that was the reason we didn’t have any sex at all for five years (well ok once we did and that’s when we became pregnant with our second child). In this blog I share about our journey of trying to find our way back to sex and how that means exploring it in a completely different way than before.

Why start a blog about our (non-existient) sexlife?

One of my intentions for this year was facing my fears and going towards that which is uncomfortable. And since I have noticed that I have this big fear of being judged, about what others might think of me, I thought this was a great way to make myself super...
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Oh my God! – We did it!

Ah no, we didn’t do THAT… But what we did was we managed to turn what would definitely have become one of those big reoccurring fights into connection instead! We turned it around! I'm speechless... A while ago I started working with beautiful Rachel Rickards...
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He just wants to get into my pants

The light in me acknowledges the all that’s wrong with you Yeah I know that’s not a very high frequency thought at all. Yet, it doesn’t matter how much I would like to be this super conscious, compassionate person - that’s not how I feel right now.  So not much has...
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Oh my God! – We did it!

Ah no, we didn’t do THAT… But what we did was we managed to turn what would definitely have become one of those big reoccurring fights into connection instead! We turned it around! I'm speechless... A while ago I started working with beautiful Rachel Rickards...